Jonathan Jonathan “Where are you?
Towards the end of November was the last time I penned a post on this site and the realization of that has left me feeling kind of guilty. To be honest it was not on purpose. Although I look back on 2011 and I can happily reflect on the amazing business accomplishments I achieved, on a personal level there was not too much to be happy about. 2011 seemed to only bring me personal tragedy and crisis constantly culminating in me finding out at the end of December that I would lose my home and would have to move.
I was not immune to the recession that took place. I lost my job in 2008 and had to start the rebuilding process. I was living in a home that my father in law held the mortgage. Since he lost work as well we decided to build an apartment in the lower level for him and my mother in law in order to both cut our costs significantly. We started the long process of going through a loan modification. I assumed everything was fine and then back in August of 2011 we get a notice of foreclosure.
Imagine my shock. I thought everything was fine. I hired paralegals and a lawyer to fight this. After a few thousand dollars later I come to find out that due to a couple of oversights on our end regarding some fine print in the modification that the big bank had won and I had not. Needless to say, I have been speechless over all of this. I guess we all have our thresholds, don't we?
Writing this post is my way of purging. As I have gotten older I have come to realize I retain all my stress inside of me without even realizing its overall effect on me personally and for those around me. With everything that has taken place, I keep telling myself each morning to just set realistic goals for the day and push through it. Despite all the bologna of 2011, I do have much to be grateful for which as I am writing this post I am reflecting on. It's not my way of scolding me for being upset but it serves as a great balancing tool for sure.
In a little over a week, I will be in my new place and I am honestly looking forward to it. It may be a temporary roof over my head while I continue the rebuilding process but it's a roof and I am happy. It will serve as a symbol of another new beginning in my life. 2011 has taught me many personal lessons about me and about how I function. I think I know where I am now. I believe I have found what I needed. I am grateful for all the support, in general, I have received from all of you and I look forward to a solid positive direction personally. It's time to hop back in the saddle and crush it.
Written by Jonathan Saar
Goodness Jonathan! Seriously cannot imagine how you held yourself together through such tribulations. I am beyond impressed by you and your wife as she must have been a great support in light of all that was happening. I commend you for your honesty and am very glad you shared. 2012 is a year with a clean slate for you and I can only hope that things carry an upward trajectory. Good luck Jonathan and know friends exist in both the online and offline world we share.
Carmen I am so happy you mentioned my wife because you hit the nail on the head and hit the ball out of the park. If there is one thing I am eternally grateful for each day it is her. She is my rock and my life. Clean slates are great and I am grateful to you Carmen for all your support. Thanks for the encouragement.
J
I believe in my heart of hearts that on the downside of every adversity are found the seeds for absolute greatness - I admire your courage in the way of embracing your reality, putting '11 to rest and looking forward to '12 with great anticipation.
Much providence to you good sir.
M
Courage is a great word to reflect on sir. To be honest there were moments I questioned if I had enough but here I am! 🙂 I reflect greatly on the power of my community and the inspiration it provides and I feel so privileged that you have always been a part of that from day 1. Hope to see you soon!
Jonathan - There is always reason for everything. We cannot grow without change or get stronger without obstacles. Life gets tough and tough people like you get going. I hope 2012 is filled with many blessings. You deserve it!
Spot on Michelle. There is no doubt I have learned many many lessons. It's those lessons that inspire me and give me confidence with what I have to do. Thanks for everything my friend!
How can I be of help to you, my friend?
Patty!!! I miss you so much! How is the family? Everything is ok now. Â Posting this was super therapeutic believe me. 2012 is already turning into a stellar year and I can only envision more positive things to come. Â Thanks for your support!
Hi Jonathan! It's so strange that you posted this because I was going to message you today about missing your Socius blogs. It's crazy that you've been able to help and support so many of us in multifamily (and beyond I'm sure) while you and Renee have been dealing with so much. You're an inspiration. I wish you and your beautiful family a very happy and healthy 2012 and beyond!
Thank you so much Renee. Socius is definitely back and will only pick up steam from this point on. Me and my sweetie we certainly support each other. Life always has its cloudy time periods but when you stick together the sun always shines. Thank you for your well wishes and your amazing support!
Cheers to new beginnings Mr. Saar. Appreciate you sharing your story, and so sorry for your situation. I'm glad you're moving onward and upward my friend!
Thank you sir and all my best to you and your growing family! Not too much can stop me..sometimes things slow you down for a bit but then it's full throttle as you plow through. I appreciate so much all the support you give in every way. There are lots of moments to look forward to!
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